Why did the Chicken cross the road?? Why Achilles went to the battle even though his mom told him he will die? Why is earth round? Why is it that we alwayz want others to do what we want? Why??
Why can be referred to a Reason or even for a Causality...that’s what wiki told me when i asked WHY? My logic is "Why" is only to raise a doubt on someone or something. Few people have habit of asking Why for good reasons & few...just wanna mess around with you.
I have a close friend whose Whys never fail to amuse me & sometime am speechless with his Why's :) but i still love him. I guess we are too familiar with this Why; Right from the time we ask something from our parents in childhood may be until our old age.... This is one word which can change your face color, your body posture if you know what i mean :)
I have noticed the word Why can mean allot with just a little tweak in the Tone. Well that’s with most of the words but this one has a special place in my life. I have answered Why so many times that I wonder if Why is synonyms for every word I know in dictionary ;) there are many difficult questions which start with Why but don't have any end...what i mean is the questions don't have any answers....until now at least. Few of the most commonly raised doubts are (am referring Doubt synonym of Why) Why did you do this? Why are you like this? Why aren't you responding to me? or my favorite- "Why?Why?Why?" those are not only 3 Whys' but makes lot of emotional impact on others provided you are sensitive enough to acknowledge emotions.
With the word Why, we don't realize that we take up the personal space of an individual subconsciously (if you think bout it). I feel like that from the point of view of if someone has done something which one doesn't appreciate he/she will have their own reason to do the action. Of course the flip side of the same is this can be related to two people in relation & has the full right to question...but honey...there is a very thin line which one has to realize. I think the problem arises when we get more concerned bout our feelins & that is when we want to probe more & get the answers & try to fix it immediately.
I checked with many people....a synonym to Why is also considered as Irritation. The word causes the same affect in many i know....Irritation. Well if we are the victim to it...sometime we are the same people who make others victim too with our Whys'. we cannot let go of that word but am sure we can reduce it....I have....am sure few will agree with me on this.... it’s not easy.....it took me years to learn to reduce usage of this word.
It’s not rocket science but it's the everyday science which we over look & mangle things.....what am trying to say is...maybe you don't realize it....may be you don't want it.....but your Why's can make someone feel miserable...feel like one is a slave of somebody else's thought....make one feel that he/she has lost the freedom of thought or action...No one likes to get questioned...we know that too well...so how hard can it be that we realize that we shouldn't push our luck with others cause it's a known fact Luck can run out anytime.
I get up and out of bed,
Try to forget all those things we said.
It's now over for good,
I promised myself to leave it right there here I stood.
People always tell me things will get better,
But I find myself writing you half a letter.
How did we fall so far apart,
You left me not knowing where to start.
I am here now trying to find out how to survive,
And struggling to just keep myself alive.
I remember when you were a hero in my eyes,
You were always there to give me a surprize.
But those are just long lost memories of mine,
Maybe this is our life design.
I spent so many days cold and lonely,
I believed that you were my one and only.
There are some things in my head I'll take to my grave,
But it won't be all that love that I gave.
You made me so emotionless,
And you gave me all this stupid stress.
I try to believe in things I can't see,
But is there even hope for me!
My back is up against a wall,
And it's hard for me to keep standing tall.
Life just isn't worth it anymore,
You left me standing at the door.
You said it's time to say goodbye,
And I just wondered... why?
